Being single

... is it really THAT BIG deal?
I feel a little bit better today. Well, day is still grey but it stopped raining for a while. I was at my grandma's place today and everyone were asking me about some boyfriend. Of course I have nothing I could tell them. Nobody wants me and I'm not suprised. Like at all. Who would want depressed, suicidal, weird, ugly and fat girl? My grandparents and others are just trying to be kind. They know that I'm all of these things. Well, they don't know about suicidal thoughts and stuff, maybe they think about it, because they know I'm still sad, but back to the topic. Then they were talking to my younger sister and well, she's the exact opposite. She's really beautiful, she can talk with people, she looks like a model and every guy I know likes her. So I was just sitting there and wondering, if I'll come to them one day and tell them that I found someone.

Probably not. Because I don't believe in it anymore. Every girl I know had atleast one boyfriend already, but I was just still the single one. I still think that when I'm seventeen I have a lot of time to find someone, but just look at these times. Eleven-years-old kids date and they're being completely adult and I'm there like - well, that sucks, I'm more kid than them. Because I'm weird. I can't stop being awkward and I know that I won't have anyone with this kind of attitude.

And even if some miracle would happen, I'd totally destroy that guy. I have really bad days and everything is so complicated, sometimes I'm not able to go out, sometimes I just don't want to speak. And my depression and self-harm isn't a good thing. If he'd know about it, he'd tell me I'm a crazy and disgusting and he'd leave me, or he'd try to help me and he wouldn't stand it and he'd drown with me and I don't want this kind of shit, I don't want to hurt someone. So maybe he'd realize it and leave me, or I'd leave him just for his own good. Anyways, it would end up really bad and that's what scares me.

I get attached to people really fast and deeply. So I feel horrible when they stop talking to me. And if someone would leave me, someone I really love I don't know what would happen to me. I'd be probably even more depressed and I could even try to kill myself. So, yeah, it's a huge risk to date someone like me. No wonders I don't have anyone. Those guys are smart.

Of course I have those times (really often), when I feel so alone and I want to have someone this close, but I'm scared. I'm scared of everything what could happen. This is why I'm alone, people around me probably know it. So I've started to think that it's my destiny to die all alone. I won't have husband, children... I'm not that kind of person. I can dream about it, but that's all I can do.

I can't go out and wear that mask and trying to talk to people, acting like someone else and then living for the rest of my life as someone I am not, just because of people around me, who would like this fake side of me. I doubt there would be someone who would accept the real me, who thinks all the time about ways of killing herself. Who can't accept any kind of compliment. Who truly hates herself.

And that's my problem in love life.

Hurting each other

Hello,
yes, I'm not okay, I'll never be. And that's why I'm active again. I've decided to have a little break from the internet. Not fully, but yeah. From twitter, facebook, it pissed me off. No, it didn't piss me off, I pissed off myself with all those depressive, angry and panic tweets. I thought that I take other people down with me and I couldn't stand it. I can't stand when they're worrying about me, when they're trying to help me when I know that I'm helpless. I feel so sorry for everything.

I was in a huge stress recently, mostly because of that I'm not good enough. Well, I also had to do others' very important homeworks and I cried when I wrote it. I'm not at his level. I'm not that smart as him, but he told me to do it and if I won't do it, it'll probably kill me. So, yeah. That's it. Also because I'm depressed and I wasn't at school a lot, I have to go there even when I feel like a shit, because of my grades. Also all of this shit what keeps happening to me... self harm, suicidal thoughts, eating disorder, panic attacks, depression... It's just too much.

I feel more disgusting then I ever felt. How I said, I don't eat, I skip meals and exercise a lot, because I think I'm really fat and I feel all that weight on me. I want to throw up a lot, I don't know if it's because of this, or because of the stress, maybe both. I feel like I'm bothering everyone. I don't feel good enough to even talk with someone. I can't even draw because of all of these feels. I mostly lay in my bed where I'm crying and sleeping.

Yesterday, I told myself that I have to do something about it. I've tried atleast to look happy and then I just... broke. I was crying on the floor, I wanted to throw up, I cut my thighs, like a lot. And I couldn't breathe properly, I was shaking, I couldn't do anything. I was even searching for alcohol, or cigarretes, even when I promised that I won't have one anymore, but there was nothing. I had to talk to my friend to calm down, it was early in the morning and I felt like bothering her, but she helped me. To be honest, I don't wanna know what could happen if she wasn't there.

And today wasn't better. They fought again, I was between them, she walked away then, for a whole day. I was worried about her, I was crying, fortunately, she came back while ago. But she had another fight with my sister and just ugh. I would slap my sister in that moment. But I don't want to be agressive.
She was crying and I wasn't able to do anything. But he got drunk again so I'm worried what will happen today. I'm scared. I'm worried about everyone, I don't know why they keep hurting each other, why they keep hurting me, when I'm trying to help them.

And no one of them cares about me and my feelings. No one cares about me and my suicidal thoughts. Why should they? They don't need me.

Mess

I'm sitting there again, not very sure about what I'll write. Because my mind is a mess.

Do you ever feel stupid for feeling bad?
I feel like that all the time. Also awkward. And I feel bad for feeling bad. I feel like I'm a burden for a lot of people. Especially for my friends. I don't want them to be worried about me. I don't deserve their care and they don't deserve to feel bad because of me. I am an expert in destroying everyone's mood. That's my problem. Sometimes I just can't pretend that I think positive and they feel it.

I just want them to be happy and I can't keep them happy if I'll destroy their mood with my annoying and stupid personality. I just wish to be alone sometimes, sometimes I don't want to be helped, because I don't want to be anyone else's problem, sometimes I ask myself why am I still here.

I keep talking shit about that how I just can't go on and that nothing's better and I feel worse and worse. But I never was strong enough to end it. I'm such a coward. I don't even have hope, I don't like to be alive, I don't have anything to live for, I'm bothering myself with my existence, with my breathing, with my acting, with my face, just everything.

Today I went from school earlier and when I got home, I felt sick just from being there. He just commanded me, do this and do that, do my project to my school, make these posters, give me some food, shut up, get out... I just wish him to offer my death. I'd bow and tell him: "As you wish, my lord.", I'd so do that.
I think about how he'd react, how everyone would react.

I think about it everytime. I think about who would truly miss me, who would cry, who would be happy, confused, how they'd feel about my goodbye letter (I have to mention it probably wouldn't be a goodbye letter, but a goodbye book...), I think about who would find me... on the one side, I feel really awful that I if I'd do it, I could hurt to some people, but on the other side, I could save some by it and I could save myself.

That was everything I thought about when I cried and fell asleep again in my bed. I slept for an hour, though. When I woke up, he was even pissed off because of that I'm sleeping. I couldn't be there, so I went for a walk in the rain, it was like some scene from a bad, drama, teenage movie, because hey, the weather is the same like my mood again.

The atmosphere was awful there, everyone were annoying, they were all together and so fake it actually hurt. I was just waiting for another fight. It didn't last long in the end. But it was nothing I'm not used to. So I spent all evening all alone, telling everyone to go away, because I couldn't stand anyone's presence. And I still feel so fucked up because of everything that I'm forgetting to study on tests, thinking about excuses, because I don't want to go to school and meet all of those people...

Anyways I have to keep going and I don't want to, I really don't want to. I wish to find my mask again.

Birthday...

Well, happy fucking birthday to me.

This day is one of the worst. I think it my birthday’s fault, one one side. On the other side, it’s still me and my fucking problems. Well you know how you celebrate birthday with your family? Well, they even didn’t say „happy birthday“, only one of them. In a text message. But then nothing, when I saw her, and I won’t even mention the another one. This made me sad. Even more sad than I was before. I’m used t that that I cry every fucking moment of my life, but this was just rude. I won’t be sad because of fucking „happy birthday“, I’m sad, because I’m simply overlooked. Yet again. It’s like I’m an automatic thing that appears everytime they need me. Like a fucking robot.

I needed to get out. So I went to café with my friend and her girlfriend. Even it was fine, it made me realize how fucking lonely I am. Like everytime I see some couple. This is just a crap. It gives me no confidence at all. I feel ugly like a shit. I feel annoying, I feel so fucking awkward, so hella weird. I just hate myself and I dunno what am I complaining about when I know how many mistakes I’ve got. Nobody wants to be with that fat-ass, weird, suicide girl with no life. Who would be like that? Nobody wants this unhealthy realitionship. I would only make him sad. I would destroy him as a person. I do not deserve anyone. But I hate being alone. Well well, my fault. All of this. My fault. If I wouln’t be one ugly and annoying motherfucker…

And when I arrived home, I was so pissed off, so depressed. I needed to get out. I went with another two of my friends outside and fuck, talking about my mood made my mood even worse. And I had to pretend. ALL THE FUCKING DAY. I had that fucking mask. That mask that told people I am happy. That mask that broke hours ago and I stayed in my bed, crying like an idiot, thinking about my death what would be in the same day as my birthday so I would just simply make it easier to people around, that they'd cry only one day after in one year (well, after some years with dealing with it, or months... or days, whatevs), just like always. My hysterical crying. I didn’t care if anyone will hear me. No one will ever come, so, whatever. They gave up long ago. It’s like they almou waiting for my final breakdown.

I'd like to get some sleep

I'm wearing a mask.
The mask I'm grateful for, because if I wouldn't have one, I wouldn't be able to do anything. And when school started, it's super important to stay calm, just to give and illusion to people around you that you're "okay". Pft. Okay. What's even that feeling "okay"? I didn't feel something like this for a long time. And it scares me a lot actually.

Every day, when I arrive from school, it's the same. I'm going to my room, turn on the computer and stay like this all the day, because I know, if I wasn't there, I would be probably somewhere in the corner and thinking about horrible things I would do to myself. And I don't want to fall into this shit again. I fell a few times recently and I can't be more pissed off myself for that. I'm still repeating to myself, that I shouldn't do this, but when I can't see the light, it's only thing I'm able to do.

It's like I deserve this, you know. Every kind of pain, I don't know why, when I feel the pain, I just stand there and telling to myself that I deserve this. Even I don't. I really don't think that, I'm the only one person that still tries to save everything and everyone and they are not giving a shit about it. About me. I'm overlooked, I feel like an automatic thing that they know will show up everytime they're in trouble.

And I'm sick of this already. It's not my fault. It's not. But I have to save it, because I'm the only one who cares. I can't just let go something I really love. Something that's so important, my life depends on it. And that fact that no one cares about how do I feel hurts so bad, you know. I'm still naive and think it'll get better, but it doesn't. I'm waiting so many years, I don't think there's any hope left.

And that's what's running through my head recently and I can't tell. Anyone. Because they would think I'm just a crazy, moody, over-dramatic teenager. But it hurts. It seriously hurts and no one gets it. And that's why I'm trying to smile, I'm trying to act like nothing is happening, I'm trying to act like I don't think about how I should die. I'm trying to give them all this illusion.

Then, when I'm at home, I go to bed and just let it out. I'm screaming to my pillow, my eyes are full of tears and I can't stop, there's big pain in my chest, big hole in my heart that'll never fix up.

I thought I'll never do that again.

And I did.
And fuck that.
I can't be even more pissed at myself right now. And I can't take it no more, because I'm weak, I'm fucking weak and I don't know what I should do. And because of it I did this again.
I made 2 years without self-harming and here I am again. I won't be able to look to others' faces right now. I just don't deserve to fucking be here. It's like something wants me to suffer in the worst ways for me and it just sucks. I'm not that strong as I used to be. I feel like everything could make me cry. I feel like I should stay in my room for the rest of my life. Just being here, because nobody fucking cares, alright? Nobody cares about that fucking stupid, weird, asocial girl, who isn't good enough. For NOTHING.

I am that "nothing". And I'll never stop feel like this. I can't help it. And I hate myself more now. Because I couldn't even stop. I did THAT again. And I don't know if I'll be able to stop again. It sucks. It just sucks and I don't want to be here anymore.

I didn't eat. Everytime I go to sleep I imagine how I should die. Or if I had a will to do it. It fucking sucks and I don't know how to make it stop. Again those panic attacks and anxiety. FUCK THAT. FUCK EVERYTHING.

I feel like a shit now.
And I feel like this for a really long while.

Show me hidden in layers.

I'm never going to public in my swimsuit. Never.
Everyone look so perfect. Like fucking robots. No, seriously. I looked at those skinny girls and I thought I'm going to explode, because I said yes, when my dad asked me, if I want to go there. Even when I bought swimsuit what hide a lot, it wasn't enough.

I was so ashamed for my body like I never was. Where are those days, when I just said: "So what." and went to swim? They're gone. Forever. I was also paranoid. I thought that everyone's looking at my fat parts. It was, ugh, I just can't do it again. Don't want me to do it.

Maybe I'm not fat, but I feel this way.

Eating disorder

Yes, I think I have an eating disorder, even I thought that it'll never happen to me.
I always was like: "Oh my god, I would never stop eating, it's such a bullshit, you know. I'd rather be fat.". Well and without noticing it, I almost stopped eating. It started like that I wasn't hungry and if I was, I didn't want to eat, because it just disgusted me. Because everytime I eat something, I feel sick.

I know that I'm not that fat. And I don't know why is this happening. I'd like to eat, but I can't, you know? I eat once a day and if something good won't happen, I think my body will be soon without energy to do anything. I've got something fixed in my brain probably. Since those days people called me fat-ass, even people I thought they like me. And maybe after so many years of listening, something in my did "click" and my body changed in this way.

I don't know what to do, I think that when finally I have no problems with other people, I've got problems with me. With my health, with my personality.

What else to say, it sucks guys and I would never ever wish those things what are happening to me to my worst enemy.

Shaking.

Do you know that feel, when you're just like all alone with your thoughts? Like when you thinking about yourself, about what you're doing wrong and why is everything so fucked up?

This is exactly that moment, when I feel so lonely, so fucked up, so stressed out that I'm starting to shake. It's like... I don't even know. I just can't stop it. It's just happening. My heart beating so slow that I think that I'm going to die.

It's not because I'm cold, it's because all the shitty things what are happening. It's because that I just kept this pain locked for so long and didn't tell anyone. It's because I know that I won't feel better. Because there's no way. It's because I feel so lonely, too far away from people who could help me.

And all things I can do is curl up in my bed, forget my name, forget my face, forget that I've ever existed, cry and try to sleep.
This is what if feels like to be me in those moments.

I tried to find out why I'm shaking and I can't stop. Because I really don't wanna to tell someone, so I googled it. I found out that I probably suffer by panic attacks and anxiety. Seriously, this is the "best fucking life" what somebody can have.

Don't know what I'm gonna do with this.

I wish I could be something or somebody else.

Yeah, I'm writing stupid stuff there only when I feel bad. Sorry. But this is why I decided to make this blog. Actually everytime I go there, I hope it's for the last time, but it's never like that. I always come back a write something about how bad I feel.

Just right now. I don't know, my life isn't so bad recently. Problems aren't so great and so on. But the mistake is in me. I don't know why, but with every day I feel more and more useless, annoying little piece of shit. I'm trying to ignore that, but when I stop for a while and start thinking, I really don't like myself. No, I hate myself. Seriously. There's only a few things I like about me, but those things other people don't know and they don't want to.

There's times when I look to the mirror and cry. If I was someone else, I think I would say something like "It's not that bad." well, maybe it's not that bad, but for me is. For no reason... Well, there are reasons.

I think I'm so annoying, so weird, so awkward, more asocial than I was, not important - because no one ever miss me (besides my internet friends probably...), fat-ass, not funny, stupid and so on.
How can I believe in myself more, when I see only this when I look at me. Only people in my real life see it. Internet friends don't see it probably only because I'm more open here. But being open for people in my real life? It's too late. They don't give a fuck about me, and if they do, it's only insults.

And I think it gets "better" with every moment. I think I have some sort of eating disorder. It's been 4 days already since I ate more than only once a day. I'm not hungry. I'm not. I just don't need to eat. But only one person who knows about it is me. (And you know, if you read my shitty thoughts) I think I would get more shit for that than I'm already getting now.

Also yesterday someone wrote my on my ask.fm. Anonymously, of course. It was something about that how someone wants to beat me up. And you know what? I didn't care... I just fucking didn't care if something will happen. It's natural that people have that instinct of self-preservation, right? I didn't had it in this moment. I think I wouldn't even care if they would seriously do it. And maybe I wouldn't even fight back.

Because my self-confidence is lower again. Because I would beat myself too.
Sorry for everything.
Sorry for being me.

Gone.

I was gone for a long time.
I know.

I have no internet, at first. It's really hard for me, because people over the internet keeps me alive. They understand and they don't laugh at me, while I'm talking to them about my problems. So I always miss them. But it's holidays, so I'm staying at grandma's house. And... I even didn't know if I should continue to write those depressive arcticles. I started to write a diary instead. But it didn't last long. Of course nothing changed. Everything's still the same. I'm the same. Or maybe just a little more emotional and sensitive. I feel so nervous recently. I think that when someone tells me something personal, I just start to cry and die.
I have no idea why I feel this way. Well, it's better though. I mean my problems. But I'm not okay. Sometimes I think I need a help. But I don't want to be annoying.

I'm still really confused by myself. I'm depressed, I'm really depressed, but I can hide it. Like a proffesional. And I still lie to myself, it's just an illusion, to make myself feel better for a while. But when I'm alone just with my thoughts, it always ends like that, that I'm sad.

I seriously don't know why I wrote this shit there. I just wanted to do it.
Yes. I'm still alive.

Death.

I'm scared. I am so fucking scared.
When people who do you love, no matter what happen, because they were the one who created you, who gave you life... when they tell you that they want to be dead... it's horrible.
It's like... there's nothing what can make them stay. Even not the kids. I'm not surprised by my depressions when the people who gave me life had fucked up life and personalities.

I'm not afraid of death (well, maybe I am, kind of). I'm not afraid of death when it has something to do with me. It's just... I'm not too important, I never was. It's not like I'm the one who's the head of our "family". But when I'm so scared when someone I love, even I'd like to stop to love this person, say: "I wanted to kill myself yesterday. I didn't know if I should come home." it's like crashing hearts and feelings and that wet trails of tears down on your cheeks.

Aggression, fear, pain.

That's what it feels like to be at home. For everyone. There's no happiness, there's no such a thing like: "It feels like to be home.". How I said, this place where I live is just a big, cold house. With all of these feelings. I want to run away. Every fucking time. But I don't have a place where to go... And if I had, I wouldn't do it.
Because I'm just too stupid to do that.
I care to much to do that.
I'm still naive and I think it gets better, that I'll help it.
But no one feels the same way like me. We're destroyed, we're just cut into pieces. It's not a family. It's just a bunch of few different people. And between them is just biologicall bond. Nothing more.

Yes, feels. But we never showed them. And we'll never do.

I don't know how it'll end. I'm just worried that death is closer than before.

I wanna die to be someone else.

Hey guys.
Of course.
I didn't post anything recently.
Because I was okay.
But I'm not okay.
Not now.
Shaking hands, hard breathing, tears.
That's why I'm here.
Writing about my fucked up feelings.
Again.

So, here we go...

Nothing lives forever. Unfortunately. Not happy moments, especially this. It seems so nice and it gives you hope, you can also feel those forgotten feelings like love and joy. Everything seem colorful. Until that moment you just finally start to live and believe that it gets better. Then the hard slap of destiny is there.

Today is a day a found out I'm just a burden. Unwanted, useless piece of our family. I'm always that girl who just sits with her computer. Girl who is fucking stupid, but acts like an adult. Girl who is just a fat-ass but still eating. Girl, who is just a little piece of shit. And unfortunately that girl lives in this house.

This house is not a home.
Not for me.

Listen to "Home" by Three Days Grace, actually this is how I feel right now. But I don't see anything I do. I'm doing my best to make their lives easier, but they don't care at all. I'm not important. I never was. I don't know why I even think that I could be important one day.

I'm just stupid.
And fucking naive.

At first I thought that it's all because we just fight, that they don't mean it. But when they tell it to you, when they're just all calm, it hurts. Like those fucking razors I wanted to bring back to my life again. Happy I didn't. (2 years withous self-harming... Don't wanna fuck it up, but it's too hard sometimes.)

I don't know. I just think that I'm not that strong as I used to be. I'm weak, emotinal little piece of shit.

Neverending scream.

Yesterday was a good day, yeah, but with another day it ends.
No, it doesn't, I only got THESE moments again, even it has nothing to do with myself. But still... It's such a horrible feeling to know that persons who do you love, no matter what, because they gave you life, it's horrible feeling to hear them scream at each other, it's horrible to know that inside each of them is hate and pain. And their pain is also our pain. We're connected and I'll never have a happy memories for my childhood, or teenage years.
My memories will be dark, only with few light moments. All I could see would be my dark room, posters and screen, all I could hear would be music I love and scream and all I could feel would be pain and tears.
And all of these depressive, psycho thoughts would be only in my head, screaming at me to infinity. And that's everything what I've got. And the true is that I don't even try to change this. It's horrible to know that I'd rather feel like this than be happy and pretend there's nothing I should care of. I think that I don't even want to be like that. I can't pretend.

And it's there again... nothing. I feel nothing.

I don't feel sad anymore. But I don't feel happy.

During writing this it stopped. That scream stopped, for a while. That scream what hear everybody. But not that scream inside of me, it's neverending. But I can live with it.

I know that everything I write probably has no sense. But what article frome has some sense, right? I'll rather stop writing, I already write some shitty stuff. I'll leave you again with some song, to skip that awkward silence.

Today was a good day...

...After really long time.
Maybe it's just because of that I was in the school for the last time this week and holidays starts. Goodbye school, see you next Tuesday. Or maybe it's because of my amazing friends who support me no matter what, maybe it's because of you, maybe it's because of the Sleeping With Sirens, Pierce The Veil, The Used and My Chemical Romance (even it's still somehow painful to listen to them) and so on...
I really don't care.
But I'm glad for that. I feel finally better and it's just amazing. I don't care if it's on while again, but I'll try to stay positive as long as it'll be possible.

I really don't know what to say. I got no news or something, it was kinda normal and boring day in my life. So I'm all relaxed, looking on the screen. Oh, yeah, I'm sick, but it's nothing new, because I'm sick like all the winter and it just sucks. Where the fuck the spring weather is? I hate this winter/spring part between it, because I'm still sick because of cold, but also my allergy starts -_- (Yeah, I'm allergic to almost everything, cats, dogs, dust, feather, flowers...) But I'll be the whole holidays at home probably.

Crying over the bands, drinking tea, reading, writing, drawing, talk to my amazing internet friends... It sounds like a good plan.

I don't know what else to say, because I could start just talk about random shit and you don't want it, believe me. So, there's my song of the moment for a goodbye.

Have a great day.
Love,
Luce.